Starting Therapy: Why the Intake Process is Key to a Strong Therapeutic Relationship

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Starting Therapy: Why the Intake Process is Key to a Strong Therapeutic Relationship

Why the Beginning of Therapy Matters: Our Approach to Intake Sessions

Starting therapy can bring up a mix of emotions. At Takoma Therapy, we understand that making the decision to begin therapy is a big step. That's why we take a thoughtful and intentional approach to the intake process.

The Benefits of a Three-Session Intake

Rather than rushing through everything in a single meeting, we offer a three-session intake. Why? Because we believe that strong therapy begins with a strong relationship.

A single intake session often doesn't provide enough time or space to fully share your story or determine whether the connection with your therapist feels right. By extending the process to three sessions, we ensure that:

  • You have ample time to discuss what brings you to therapy without feeling rushed.
  • Your therapist can develop a comprehensive understanding of your needs, history, and goals.
  • Both you and your therapist have the opportunity to assess whether it feels like a good match.

Our priority is that you feel cared for and supported right from the start. If at any point it seems like a different approach or therapist might better serve you, we'll help guide you to the right fit, whether within our practice or beyond.

What to Expect During the Intake Process

At Takoma Therapy, each intake session is a therapeutic conversation, not just a fact-finding mission. These initial meetings allow both you and your therapist to gain clarity on what brings you to therapy and how to proceed in a way that aligns with your needs.

Here's a general outline of what each session entails:

  • Session 1: You'll discuss your reasons for seeking therapy, current challenges, and personal goals. This is an open space for you to share what feels most important.
  • Session 2: Your therapist will explore your personal history, relationships, identity, and coping strategies to better understand the context of your present experiences.
  • Session 3: You and your therapist will reflect on how the intake process has felt so far and collaborate on next steps. If it feels like a good fit, you'll work together to shape your ongoing therapy. If not, we'll assist you in finding a better match.

Throughout the intake process, your therapist is there to listen closely, offer support, and help you articulate your needs. Even if you're just beginning, this is a meaningful step in your therapeutic journey.

Beginning Your Therapeutic Journey

After completing the intake sessions, you and your therapist will embark on your ongoing work together. This may involve setting specific goals, exploring various therapeutic approaches, and adjusting the plan as your needs evolve.

Ultimately, our in-depth intake process sets a strong foundation for the life-changing work of therapy. It ensures that you feel seen, heard, and supported as you navigate your unique path to wellbeing.

If you're considering starting therapy, we invite you to visit our Therapists Page to learn more about our team, or contact us at (301) 563-9156 to schedule a consultation. We're here to support you every step of the way.

Simone Jacobs, LCSW-C​​, LICSW (she/her/hers)

Founder & Director, Takoma Therapy

I truly enjoy engaging with people and have a naturally warm, open style. I believe my authenticity and compassion are key to forming trusting relationships with my clients. To me, therapy is about having a conversation with you. I listen to the stories you share about your life and look for the meaning you have given to those stories. I ask questions that explore the relationship you have with yourself, those around you, and how the experiences you share about yourself shape those relationships. I ask questions that seek out alternative perspectives that highlight your ability to handle whatever difficulty you may be facing. Together we can work towards creative resolutions to complex issues.

For over ten years I've focused my work on individuals, couples, and families dealing with trauma as a result of abuse and neglect. My experience as a trauma counselor also fuels my passion to help women of color explore issues of racism, sexism, and intergenerational trauma. As a biracial, female therapist I am uniquely effective at being able to look through the lens of racial identity questions with my clients. In 2013, I established Takoma Therapy’s ‘Women of Color’ Group for this purpose, and remain committed to this program.

I hold a Bachelor of Science degree from Kings College, London University, and a Master's in Social Work from Smith College. I am a member of the International Society for the Study of Trauma and Dissociation. For many years, I was a presenter at the ISSTD Conference, speaking on the topic of surviving childhood trauma. Much of my work outside of the practice now focuses on the link between the legacy of slavery and mental health.

My first book, Understanding the Paradox of Surviving Childhood Trauma: Techniques and Tools for Working with Suicidality and Dissociation", is available from Amazon, or through Routledge Publishing. Written for trauma therapists, although anyone can read it, it provides a fresh lens through which to view the coping mechanisms of survivors of childhood abuse and neglect.

Speaking Engagements

For speaking engagements, clinical presentations, and business-related inquiries, please contact Simone Jacobs at  simonejacobs@takomatherapy.com.

Who is Takoma Therapy?

Takoma Therapy is a local practice based on the Takoma Park / DC border, offering warm, thoughtful support for individuals and couples, both in-person and online.

  • Easy to access from DC, Silver Spring, and nearby areas
  • We help you find the right therapist, not just any therapist
  • A space where you feel understood, not judged
  • Clear, supportive help navigating insurance and getting started
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